PooWee’s Birthday Party
We had a great time! PooWee showed off his walking skills for everybody, they were all amazed. He was so excited to have so many people over.
I was going to get a Cookie Monster cake, but Elijah wanted to make one. He picked a strawberry cake with his favorite cream cheese frosting. Then he decorated it beautifully.
Elijah taught him how to unwrap his presents, he caught on quickly. He seems to really enjoy everything he got. Plus, we get to put some money into his savings account.
I ended up very much enjoying my evening. Elijah had a friend over, they were playing in his room, PooWee was playing with all his new toys and Andrew was at work. I actually had atleast an hour of uninterrupted knitting/alone time. It was AWESOME. I wondered for a moment if I was in my own home.
Tomorrow is PooWee’s “real” 1st birthday. We will celebrate just the four of us and a couple of gifts. WOW my PooWee is a year old. I swear he was just born yesterday! What an amazing year. He brought more than he will ever know to this family.
WE LOVE YOU POOWEE!

Elijah’s Hip
Back to the doctor yesterday for Elijah’s hip “issues”. Well, Dr. B felt 2 small bumps. She had me feel one, it was about the size of a pea. They were painful. Poor guy.
I forgot the term Dr. B thought they were, but she did say they were common in older people and not typical for kids to get. Plus, she added that they don’t hurt for such a long time, usually only a couple of days. So, she’s sending us to an Ortho. (bone) doctor next Tues.
Elijah’s response was “Why do I always get what old people get?” In the last year he has encounter 3 medical conditions that he was told older people commonly get. His question is so real to me too…WHY? Why, does all this happen to him. Why is it so hard for us to find help in our area for his visual condition? Every doctor we encounter says, they can’t help him because they only deal with older people? Why does my 9 year old son have to go through all this. Yet, I talked to him about how fortunate he is compared to some health problems other children have, such as cancer.
And for me, I do live currently in the fear that these pumps are NOT what Dr. B thinks they are. I fear they are the BIG C word. This happened with his eyes. What if…OMG I can’t even begin to imagine what parents go through.
Dear God, please take care of my E-man. Please say these pumps aren’t anything too serious.
Adoptee’s Right to Their History
Last night I made a connection with adoptees and their right to know their past. I STRONGLY believe they should have every right to their past and history. They should know what types of medical history they may be carrying with them. THEY HAVE EVERY RIGHT!!!!
How do I relate to this? Well, we know close to nothing about Elijah’s father’s family history.
When Elijah was going through all these tests for his vision, we were constantly asked about family history. I tried getting history from his father, JW. I called JW’s probation officer, who said she would relay the info to JW. I called his work asking them to have him get in-touch with me or Eli’s doctor. I left 3 messages with JW’s mother, begging her for info. I get ZIPPO response from all my attempts.
I can’t comprehend NOT wanting to help my own son with his medical condition! JW may have chosen to stay out of Eli’s life, but for crumb sakes, help him with his health issues.
I do recall JW’s mother having “issues” with her eyes, though I believe she has glaucoma. I also recall her having several medical problems. Including mental issues, such as multiple personalities and anxiety disorders. Elijah, MAY be carrying some of this with him.
Where is Eli’s right to his medical history. Why can’t JW be forced to inform Elijah of what he may be having to deal with? Why must he continually be faced with a questionable future? Elijah’s children have a right to know!
We WANT This…
Elijah and I have made our final decision. I don’t necessarily like the term ”want”, but I decided, yes I WANT this for my son. The Strix portable CCTV . We feel having a portable one will be SO MUCH MORE convenient for him.
Only question is how to pay for it! I have yet to hear back from the Lions Foundation on some money towards it. I should probably check with them soon. Elijah suggested a rummage sale.
I’ll see what kind of tax return I get too.
But, for now, this is on our wish list. I will find a way to get it for him.
Knitting
I’ve gotten alot of knitting done lately. I just have to show it all off!
I completed a scarf, hat and mitten set for PooWee’s coat. Coco-I have a present for the bean! His Santa hat is 99% complete, just have to sew the seam and make the pom-pom for the top. And then Eli’s new Santa hat is on the hooks! Should get that done today. I’m hoping to get at the washcloths for my sitter too.
Next, I really NEED a new purse. My current one is showing it’s age. Thinking of making a much bigger one, maybe some cables, who knows, I design something!
Helping Others
Coco is doing such amazing work helping others this season. She has pledged to 25 Days to Make a Difference. I am NOT even close to what she has accomplished, but I’ll letcha all know what we have done.
1-Elijah’s school was doing a food drive. We donated a bag full of can goods. In-fact, Elijah’s class won for the most donations! They were rewarded with homemade chocolate chip cookies. MMMMMM!
2-We have some presents ready to send out to Jacey. Jacey-tell me where to send them!! I’ll be getting in-touch with you via email hopefully today! I decided as much as I would LOVE to swap for some yarn, I will just give what we have for her.
3-Coco made this comment on a recent post of mine. I decided I would take NO money for a Santa hat for Bean. Bean is helping SO MANY others that he DESERVES a treat too. Plus, Coco has been soooo kind to me how could I charge for a Santa hat. (Does this one count?)
4-Elijah and I REALLY want to volunteer on Christmas Day for a dinner that a local church has for those that have no place to go. I STILL haven’t gotten official word from PooWee’s father if he will take him. I’m coming pretty close to asking G-ma to watch him if his father won’t. BUT, G-ma shouldn’t have to babysit on Christmas! BUT, Elijah and I REALLY WANT to do this!! Andrew will be by his father’s for the day or he would be doing it with us too.
5-Elijah thought we could give some pet food to our local animal shelter. He’s a big time animal freak!! He’s thinking about being a Vet. Tomorrow when we go grocery shopping we will pick up some items.
6-I’ve been pondering an idea…I so much want to help out more at Eli’s school, however, I can’t because I have PooWee. I can’t afford to pay for daycare for him, while I do this. And I don’t think I should ask my mom to help me out EVEN MORE! My thought is that their may be others in the same predicament as me. What do you think of a babysitting club, so a parent can volunteer at school? I don’t know, it’s a thought.
The End
Wow-long post today. If you read this far-Thanx for sticking with me!